A man needs to feel that he is capable of solving his own problems and sees discussing them with others as imposing a burden on that person. He won't even bother her GIRL FRIEND with a problem unless he thinks the special GIRL FRIEND may have a better solution.
When a woman tries to get a man to talk about his feelings of problems, he resists because he sees it as criticism, or feels that she must think he is incompetent and she has a better solution for him.In reality, her objective is to help him feel better and, for a woman, offering advice builds trust in a relationship and it is not seen as sign of weakness."Don't offer a man advice unless be asks for it. Tell him you have confidence in his ability to work things out".
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